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Preparations for the new baby

As I type this, I am 38 weeks pregnant. We are definitely in the "waiting for baby's arrival" mood around here. Although I had Finn at just under 38 weeks, that's evidently not the trend for this pregnancy, which is okay by me. (I'm happy to bypass the stomach bug we had immediately before Finn's arrival as well!)

All that said, we are basically ready to go. We've had our "birth rehearsal," I've ordered and received the very last of the supplies, we have our rented inflatable pool, and I've put some meal prepped food in the freezer. I put together supplies on a rolling cart (diapers, burp cloths, onesies, and tiny blankets that are handy to have close-by). We could use one more Costco trip and there's always a list of little things to organize around the house, but for the most part, it's just a waiting game.

My friend Kathleen – herself freshly postpartum after the arrival of their newest family member – made this darling little bear lovey for the new baby. And my dear friend Maeve knit a hat for the baby! I need to check with her, but it looks like the Purl Soho Mixed Rib hat, knit in Purl Soho Yonder (a dreamy combination), and it's adorable. She also sent along a handmade mug from a local-to-her studio, some coffee beans, the sweetest note, dried straw flowers from their farm, and stickers for the boys! "Postpartum essentials," as she put it. Another friend has generously shared all her maternity clothes, newborn clothes, and other postpartum supplies. It's been a treat to enjoy some barely-used and new-to-me maternity clothes without having to buy any new ones (apart from a pair of jeans) myself.

I have been watching and listening to some helpful guides with labor refreshers – the best way to breathe through "surges," remembering that the pressure is purposeful, etc. I am wanting to spend some more time practicing some breath prayers, which have been incredibly helpful in my previous two labors, as well as reading through some biblical birth affirmations. I went back and re-read this post I wrote in 2022 when I was 36 weeks pregnant with Finn, and I see so many similarities to this unique period of life and waiting that I'm in, yet again.

I am acutely aware of how special this time is with our two "big" boys, and I'm wanting to savor the snuggles and the sweet phrases they use, the funny things they say. The big questions Cooper asks, the way that Finn never goes for longer than ten minutes without wanting to "see baby" and touch my belly. The way Nicholas says, "Hi, baby," when we can see big kicks and rolls and hiccups.

This past weekend, I wrapped up all the remaining Christmas gifts, and that's a relief. The boys picked out gifts for each other, and Cooper wrapped Finn's and wrote their names on it. It is so special to see his excitement for his gift for his brother.

It is bizarre to wonder "Will this be my last Aldi trip before the baby comes, or will there be time for two more?" "Will this be the last time I make bread dough?" Not that is truly matters, but it is enjoyable for me to wonder about the timing. I am reassured that the Lord already knows this baby's birthday. And we are in no rush (babies come in their own time)!

I will never minimize what a gift it is to grow and carry a new life. We are so thankful for the miracle that this little baby is, and for all the excitement around meeting him or her in the next few weeks or so. Thank you, Lord.

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